Call Me the Clay

Category: Divorce

  • Yep, He Had My Back the Whole Way!

    Boy has it been a year!  I have been through the ringer and this ol’ single mom is T-I-R-E-D!  But I’m also very grateful that I’m not alone. Here are just some of the things I can recall for 2014: 1) Started the New Year with frozen pipes/issues – meant lugging water in for a couple…

  • Still On My Journey…Learning More…..Sometimes With My Heels Dug In…..

    I can’t believe I haven’t posted anything since May – and here it is October! A lot has been going on for sure. Some of it has been tough, but I lean heavily on God and He always sees me through! As mentioned in this previous post, my daughter and son-in-law moved down south.  They are…

  • Life Goes On….

    So, things have been hectic to say the least.  Our divorce was final on July 5th.  And I took him to the airport on the 6th – so he could take off to Mexico and be with the one he claims to love.  How crazy is that!?!?  Most people think I’m nuts for doing that. …

  • This Journey Is Bumpy….

    I’ve neglected this blog – I know.  I think it is two-fold.  Life got hectic and I kinda forgot about it.  And, life got hectic (repeat intended).  But I’m back and ready to move on. First of all, I’ve been working through the pain.  And the anger.  And everything else that goes along with being…

  • The Truth Hurts…

    So hubby and I have been having some real heart-to-hearts lately.  And they have been extremely heart-breaking…for me anyways.  Not him. He told me one day that he never knew what love felt like.  Meaning, he didn’t ever feel it for me.  Nice to know 9+ years later. Yesterday, I spotted where he had posted…

  • This Journey I’m On……

    We are all on our own journey….and as I’ve mentioned before, I’m leaving myself WIDE open to God’s will.  Anxiously awaiting to see what I’m supposed to learn….and where I’m supposed to go from here.  The problem is – and I suppose with many people – is that it is agonizingly SLOW! I am SO…

  • This N That

    Hello!  Just checking in again.  It’s been a few days.  I keep having headaches lately – so by the time I get home, I’m not too interested in the computer.  I think it’s the front that finally blew in today. First, let me tell you that I really learned a LOT at church this past…

  • In Other Words….Shut Your Mouth!!

    I went to Saturday nite services at church tonite.  And although the sermon is part of  multi-part series on marriage and relationships – there is STILL so much to learn! The one thing that really hit me this evening is how we women have the gift of talk – way more than men.  Okay, so…

  • Mind Games

    WHY do people find it fun to play mind games on others?  I don’t mean little jokes for the enjoyment of everyone involved – to create laughter.  But the kind where they say or do things and then do a 180 or pretend like it never happened, etc.  It’s like they they get some sort…